15. Have difficulty relating to his/her own family? (Note: This is a huge Red Flag that your partner will
        have difficulty in his/her own family relationships later on)
   16. Enjoy work or is your partner prone to laziness and irresponsibility?
   17. Have the television on all the time at his/her apartment or home?
   18. Criticize your personal appearance?
   19. Tell you that you need to lift weights, go jogging, or join a health club?
   20. Make fun of your weight or other bodily traits?
   21. Verbally, physically, or emotionally abuse you?
   22. Tear you down and then try to come back a few days later as "Mr. Nice Guy," promising that it will
        never happen again?
   23. Need to make major social or emotional changes in his/her life?
   24. Promise that he/she will change after the wedding?
   25. Have some of the same goals, dreams, and aspirations as you do?

Adapted from D.E. Brinley & M.D. Ogletree, First Comes Love
[Covenant Communications: American Fork, Ut., 2001], pp. 75-77.